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As soon as upon a time, beloved poet Mary Oliver wrote “let the mushy animal of your physique love what it loves.” I’ve to marvel if she’d additionally advise that you just let it watch what it watches, particularly if what it watches is identical factor again and again—and over—once more.
Anybody who’s zoned out in entrance of episodes they may probably recite is aware of the solace of this completely pointless exercise, finest undertaken whereas rotting in mattress, or mopping your kitchen, or portray your toenails. It tends to be preceded by a protracted or tiring day, week, or season (howdy, holidays!), and all the time includes paying restricted consideration: You’re additionally scrolling or consuming or just staring, half-listening to Rose babble about St. Olaf or Liz Lemon take pleasure in her evening cheese. My good good friend calls these collection “baba exhibits,” baba being a typical nickname for a child bottle or pacifier.
I requested some buddies about their go-to pacifying packages, and whereas some solutions have been anticipated (Chopped, Trendy Household, SVU, Gray’s Anatomy, Dwelling Single), just a few have been much less so (I admit I’d by no means thought-about disassociating to Columbo). Which begs the query: What makes a consolation present comforting? Size is significant—most function bite-sized half-hour episodes—and it could possibly’t have so few seasons that you just’ll be watching the identical one once more subsequent week.
However tone is very essential: Thorny, thinky exhibits like Atlanta are mind-expanding and humorous, however could also be too complicated to function cozy fare. The good friend who coined the baba present idea says her go-to is Buddies, a basic decide shared by numerous others. In spite of everything, it has ten seasons and a gentle cadence of jokes, and it depends on the premise that Joey will all the time be dumb, Monica will all the time be neurotic, and so forth.—and possibly that unyielding consistency helps us viewers really feel just like the world will go on reliably spinning.